Viva Labs Organic Extra Virgin Coconut Oil
Even though coconut oil is a no-go with a condom, it can still do the trick if you feel comfortable having sex without one (meaning you’re using another form of contraception and both you and your partner have been tested for STDs). Dr. Braaten notes that 100% coconut oil without additives is a common form of lube that’s very well-tolerated. “It’s very rare for people to have any type of allergic reaction to it,” she says. And while it’s certainly smooth, the downside is that oils tend to be a little messier than water-based lubes. Fortunately, you only need a use little bit.
What people are saying: “Love this is smooth and doesn’t get bitty like some coconut oil! Would buy this brand again – good value for money!”
8Überlube Luxury Lubricant
Überlube is made with both silicone and vitamin E, an antioxidant known to nourish the skin. It’s super slick, compatible with condoms, and a little bit goes a long way, says Dr. Dweck. “It’s also reasonable for water play since this does not dissolve in water,” she notes. “Just use caution as it can be slippery when used in the shower or bath.” (Also remember: Silicone lubes will degrade silicone sex toys—water-based options are generally your best bet for those.)
What people are saying: “Due to several medical reasons I deal with chronic vaginal dryness. I’ve tried dozens of water-based lubricants, but they always have to be reapplied fairly quickly. This lube only takes a few drops, stays slick, and feels natural. Also, it’s not that difficult to clean off.”